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Request a du'a for marriage at Al-Aqsa, made by name. How to word it with dignity for yourself or a loved one, and what it never promises.
Waiting for marriage is a private kind of waiting. Relatives ask, proposals come and go, and a person can feel they have said everything to Allah that they know how to say. Parents feel it too, watching a son or daughter wait.
If you want a du'a for this made at Al-Aqsa Mosque, in a name you choose, this page explains how to request it. For the wording of du'a you can say yourself, with hadith numbers, use the guide Du'a for Marriage. This page is for the request.
Who might ask
A single person who would like a righteous spouse.
A parent or sibling asking for a family member.
A couple engaged and about to marry, who want blessing on the start.
Newly married people who want the household to be a peaceful one.
Someone seeking reconciliation or steadiness in a marriage under strain.
Each of these gets a different intention. The mistake to avoid is a single, vague "marriage" for all of them.
What the process looks like
1. Pick a package on the prayer page.
2. Pay by Stripe or PayPal.
3. Fill in the names form: name, and what you are asking for.
4. The du'a is made by name at Al-Aqsa Mosque in Jerusalem.
5. The video arrives by email, usually within 48 to 72 hours.
If you decide against it, contact us before work on the order begins and a cancellation or full refund can be reviewed. The refund policy explains it.
Wording the intention with dignity
Privacy matters here. You can name yourself with a first name only, and you do not need to describe the person you hope for beyond their character.
For Noor. A righteous spouse, good in religion and character, and a marriage that brings peace.
For my son Ibrahim, who is 29 and still waiting. Ease in finding a suitable wife, and patience while he waits.
For us, engaged and marrying in spring. Barakah in the marriage and a home full of mercy.
For my marriage, which has been hard this year. Softened hearts and a way through.
Notice what is not in them: no name of a particular person the requester hopes will agree, and no request that someone's heart be turned. A du'a asks for what is good and leaves the person unnamed. That is both better manners and better advice, because a proposal that comes without the other side's free choice does not make a marriage.
What you receive, and the limits
A video of the du'a made at Al-Aqsa, with the name or names you provided. We do not promise a proposal, a wedding date or a particular person. Spouses are from Allah's decree, and the Quran frames them as a sign: «وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً» (30:21).
Texts that bear on this request
A du'a of Musa (peace be upon him) in need (Quran 28:24):
«رَبِّ إِنِّي لِمَا أَنزَلْتَ إِلَيَّ مِنْ خَيْرٍ فَقِيرٌ»
The verses that follow (28:25-27) continue his story. It is a du'a of need, not a formula for any one outcome.
Choosing well. The Prophet ﷺ said a woman is married for four things, and told the listener to choose the one with religion (Bukhari 5090, Muslim 1466).
Allah's help for the one seeking chastity: the Prophet ﷺ listed the one who marries seeking to remain chaste among three whom Allah has a right to help (Tirmidhi 1655, hasan; also Nasa'i 3218).
Asking another to pray for you. A Muslim's du'a for his brother in his absence is answered (Muslim 2733), and Umar was told to ask Uways al-Qarni for forgiveness (Muslim 2542).
For a prospective spouse, istikhara (Bukhari 6382) belongs to the person deciding.
For families and guardians
Parents often carry this request quietly. If you are asking for a son or daughter, the Quran gives a du'a that fits a household: «رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا» (25:74).
When the day arrives, the Prophet ﷺ taught how to congratulate the groom: «بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ، وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ، وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ» (Abu Dawud 2130, graded sahih by al-Albani). A second request can be placed then, for the new household. The marriage guide gives the texts for each stage.
Questions
Frequently asked questions
Can I request for a family member who is unmarried?
Yes. A parent, sibling or friend may request, and the person need not be told. Muslim 2733 supports du'a in someone's absence.
Should I name the person I want to marry?
It is better not to. Ask for a righteous spouse and leave the choice to Allah. Naming a person risks asking that their will be overridden.
Is this also for couples who are already married?
Yes. Intentions such as harmony, mercy and barakah in a home are common.
Can I include a couple or a whole family in one request?
Yes. The names form takes each name and intention separately, so a bride, a groom and their parents can each have a line.
Where are the du'a texts for marriage?
In the guide [Du'a for Marriage](/blog/dua-for-marriage), with sources.
What is not promised?
A proposal, a date or a particular person. Answering is with Allah alone.
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